Your quick reply:
- To solve the problem of message requests disappearing on Instagram, you need to activate the Message requests for everyone button. Instagram allows you to choose who and where you want to receive message requests.
- So, if you enable the message request option for your followers and other people on Instagram, you will be able to receive your message request in the Requests category in the Instagram Posts section.
- To solve the missing message requests issue, you need to open Instagram. Sign in to your account and then click the small profile picture icon to go to your profile page.
- Then click on the three lines icon. Then click Settings. You will need to click on the Privacy option and then click on Messages.
- Then click on Your Instagram Followers. Activate the Request messages button.
- Go back and click Others on Instagram. Then activate the Message Requests button.
- Now when someone on Instagram sends a message request, you’ll be able to receive it in the Requests section.
Why did the message request on Instagram disappear?
There are the following reasons:
1. The person cancels the sending of the message:
Often, Instagram users face the problem that the request messages they receive disappear from their profile. If you previously had a message request but can’t find it now, it could be because the person didn’t send it.
Message request disappearing is a common issue that mostly occurs when the user who sent the message request has unsent the sent messages. When the person has canceled all messages in the request, the request is also deleted.
Although Instagram notifies you when someone sends you a message request, you will not receive any notification when the message request disappears or the user has unsent messages to delete the message request.
On Instagram you can delete a message without leaving a trace. So even if the message request was sent to you a long time ago and you have not accepted it, the user can unsend all the messages that were sent to you to delete the message request.
🔴 Steps to follow:
To unsend a message on Instagram:
Step 1: Open the Instagram app.
Step 2: Login to your account.
Step 3: Then, from the home page, click Message icon located in the upper right corner of the screen.
Step 4: Then you can enter the chat section.
Step 5: Click and open the chat you want to delete the message from.
Step 6: Click and hold on any message you have sent and it will show you two options.
Step 7: Click on Cancel shipment.
2. You are blocked by the person:
When the user who sent you the message request blocks you on Instagram, the message request also disappears.
Normally, the chats you’ve had with any of your followers remain even after they’ve blocked you. But in case someone blocks you after sending you a message request on Instagram, that too will be removed and you won’t even be able to find their profile on Instagram.
When someone blocks you on Instagram, you can no longer message that user. If you try to enter your profile from the chat screen, it will appear blank. You will not be warned that the user blocked you directly, but you can get a hint from these hints.
Similarly, if you can’t find someone’s message request, you can search for the user on Instagram to see if you find their profile or not. If you find the profile you can be sure that the user has not blocked you, but if you cannot find it you should know that the user has blocked you.
3. Temporary errors in the application:
You may also face the issue of message requests disappearing when the Instagram app is facing temporary issues. App errors are common when it comes to Instagram. Many times, Instagram doesn’t work properly due to temporary issues that are usually fixed when you refresh the pages or wait a few hours.
If you can’t see pending message requests on your Instagram profile, drag and drop the message page to refresh it. If all else fails, refreshing the page will fix the problem and you will be able to see all pending message requests in the message page search bar again.
Only due to temporary problems, the message requests disappear for a while and then reappear when the problems are fixed.
Follow the steps below to update your profile and remove the issues:
🔴 Steps to follow:
Step 1: Open the Instagram app.
Step 2: Sign in on your bill.
Step 3: Next, you will need to access the Instagram message section from the home page by clicking on the Message icon.
Step 4: Then enter the Request section and pull the page down. Message prompts will reappear if the glitches are removed or you wait a while for Instagram to fix the app bug.
4. Account disabled: who sent the message:
If the user who sent you a message request deactivates their Instagram account from which the request was sent, the message request would also disappear.
This means that you will no longer find the request on your Instagram profile nor will you be able to find the account. Since the account has been deactivated, you will not find it by searching for it unless the owner reactivates the account again.
If he sent you a request message on Instagram before deactivating the account, it would automatically disappear as soon as the user deactivates the account. You won’t even get separate notifications about it.
How to fix missed message requests on Instagram?
There are the following methods to resolve the message request problem:
1. Check the DM request settings and turn everything on:
On Instagram you can choose the folder in which you want to receive the request message separately. You can also choose and decide who you want to receive the message request from on Instagram. If you don’t turn on the Message request for everyone setting, you may not receive some of the requests sent to your account.
This can be done from the Privacy Instagram section.
But if you don’t want to receive message request from non-followers on Instagram, you can disable the Request Message button for the Other people on Instagram to not receive message requests from people who are not followers.
Here are the steps you need to take to enable message requests for everyone:
🔴 Steps to follow:
Step 1: Open Instagram.
Step 2: Then log in to your Instagram account.
Step 3: Then click on the little profile picture icon located in the bottom right corner of the screen.
Step 4: From the profile page, click on the three lines icon.
Step 5: You will have a lot of options to click on Settings.
Step 6: Then you need to click Privacy.
Step 7: then click Messages.
Step 8: Click on Your followers on Instagram. Then turn on the message requests option on the next page.
Step 9: Go back to the previous page and scroll down. Click on Others on Instagram. Then turn the message requests button there is also that.
Video on how to fix missing message requests on Instagram:
2. Check for server issues or use VPN:
You can solve the problem of missing message requests by using a VPN. Usually when there is a server issue, Instagram doesn’t work properly and some of its features may not work. However, when Instagram server is down, not only you but all Instagram users face it. So, you can check out other Instagram users and ask them if they are facing the same type of problem as you are facing or not.
You can use Turbo VPN to solve this problem. Turbo VPN can be downloaded from the Google Play Store or the App Store.
Here are the steps you need to follow to use Turbo VPN:
Step 1: Download and install Turbo VPN on your device.
Step 2: Then open the app.
Step 3: Click on carrot icon under the TAP TO CONNECT Vault.
Step 4: Your device would be connected to a fast and secure connection.
Step 5: Then, open the Instagram app and go to the messages section. then from Request column, check whether the missing request was returned or not.
The bottom lines:
This article explains the different reasons why Instagram message requests disappear. It usually happens when the user sends the message, blocks it on Instagram, deactivates their Instagram profile, or there is a bug in the Instagram app. However, this can be resolved with the appropriate method that has been discussed here.